Let’s start with talking about the energy of sexuality – not sex, but sexuality energy – second chakra energy. It is the life force energy of vitality and rejuvenation. The fuel needed to follow your passions and own your individual magnetic charisma. It is the energy of creativity, of attracting and being open to manifest what you truly desire.
However, in order to attract and manifest what we fully desire, I propose to you that you need to fully love and honor your “sexiness”. Yes, think about the way you feel when you feel great in your body, when you feel “sexy”. How you carry yourself – how your confidence soars – how you naturally attract what you desire when you reside in this type of energy.
For some tapping into the energy of sexuality feels foreign, uncomfortable and downright scary. Many of us look in the mirror and think “I’m not sexy at all, I don’t deserve to be sexy, I mean look at that body, sexy means perfect and that’s not me and society would agree with me!” When we are in this state of mind – state of resistance – state of refusal, it is difficult to attract and manifest what we truly desire.
It’s really no surprise though that many people feel this way. Our society has indeed set the tone over many years for these thoughts and feelings to be present and engrained – it has programmed us to believe that unless we look a certain way, we are not sexy and certainly not worthy – worthy of success, worthy of love, worthy of having what we desire.
One positive change that I see, is that the media is starting to be more inclusive of all types of people – we see more and more ads with people of every shape, size, color, gender etc. And I personally love how some people who were criticized over and over for not fitting in or were told you’ll never make it looking the way you do have made a stand and said NO more. They are leading the way to show us that “sexy” is not defined by the way we look, it is defined by the way we feel about ourselves. It’s about breaking through the old programming and believing in ourselves, loving ourselves completely.
You too can break through old programming – yes you can. You may need some assistance to get you there and that is ok, but you CAN do it. Just imagine what it would be like to feel “sexy”, to feel worthy, to know that are enough just as you are. What new things could you accomplish? What desires that you have put on hold could manifest? Really feel into that energy and now try out a little exercise.
Put on your best outfit, play your favorite pump-up song and imagine that you are on the red carpet strutting your stuff. How does your energy look? How do you look and feel? Think about what happens when you’re feeling fabulous and sexy standing there on the red carpet – think about your level of worthiness – how worthy do you feel and asking for your needs to be met?
When you allow yourself to feel into that energy, you attract the people and events that will make your dreams a reality. It’s totally fabulous energy – it’s charisma – it’s self-love in the most beautiful way – it’s your own rock start quality!
Make a commitment to yourself to practice this exercise and feel what it is like to see and feel yourself as powerful, fabulous and sexy. Play with it – make it fun, silly, maybe even a little bit embarrassing. And just notice how you feel after doing this exercise. When you feel sexy, powerful and worthy everything around you feels more alive and fabulous. It’s like falling in love but with yourself.
Sexuality energy – second chakra energy holds the key to opening your heart, your beauty and to see more beauty and radiance in everything and everyone.